If a relationship involves two Chinese people, they are well aware of Chinese social conventions. However, if one partner is not Chinese, conflicts are inevitable and need to be discussed upfront before they become an issue.
The following are some examples of how Chinese people perceive dating situations differently:
Chinese women are normally taught to be a bit subservient before they are married, and expect the man to initiate everything. In Chinese culture the men still chase the women, and women expect them to lead when it comes to starting a relationship.
When talking to a Chinese woman on a dating site, always be polite and show respect.
Also remember that, in China, health and salary are not considered to be private issues and are expected to be discussed openly and freely.
Most women in China marry at an early age and Chinese men find it a little strange for women to be in their thirty's and still single. Older single women are more likely to jump at a dating opportunity because they are normally shunned by Chinese men to some extent. Women who have been divorced or widowed are often considered invisible on the dating scene and will usually welcome the attention.
In China education is very important and Chinese men and women are usually more interested in the education level and degrees one might possess than most cultures are.
Another very important thing to Chinese women is financial security, they believe that financial status and stability are very important for a healthy stable relationship.
A big majority of Chinese people who have a good command of the English language are usually well educated. Those who are not probably have never had the opportunity to learn, so a little patience will make it a little easier for them to learn, remember patience is a virtue.
Since religion was banned in China under the reign of chairman Mao, many people in China do not have a practicing religion.
China is pretty much a male dominated society, so the man is expected to pay for everything on a date, this includes dinner, movies, theatre, snacks and, if needed, taxis.
Chinese people usually date with the idea of starting a long term relationship. Dating for fun or for casual sex is not normally something that they do.
Many Chinese people will avoid drinking alcohol, so it would be wise not to suggest stopping for a drink on your first date, instead it would be a better idea to suggest lunch or maybe a coffee or tea.
Do not have any expectations of mainland Chinese people showing up for a date on time. It is not in the culture..
Chinese people will show that they like you by offering to help you. You will find that they will feel obligated to help with dishes or even help with small bits of maintenance around the house. It is how they show affection.
Chinese people are more aware of their health than most other cultures. They not only take care of their own health, but they will freely offer advice on yours as well. If you are sick, they will show love and respect by offering to help you out.
Chinese people are not into public displays of affection, to the point that you may not even realize that they are in love with you. They are unlikely to say, “I love you”.
Being more aware of Chinese versus Western cultural norms should help you when interacting with Chinese people in general, but especially so in a dating or relationship situation.
Hopefully this article will help you in your relationships with Chinese people. Attentive and educated Chinese men and women would love to meet you so just follow the link below.
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Showing posts with label Condoms. Show all posts
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Friday, January 20, 2012
Saturday, October 8, 2011
A Condom Conundrum
If you’re out there on the dating scene trying to find someone new, you know how much fun it can be. There are a lot of new people to meet and get to know. Some of them will eventually fizzle into distant acquaintances, some will become friends, and a lucky group will become potential relationships.
Along with the quest for the love of your life comes the side benefit of a lot of sex with new partners. There is nothing wrong with it – sex is an important component of any adult relationship. However, having all this sex with all these new partners, only a fool would proceed with out protection. And protection means condoms.
Condoms are not everybody's favorite thing to wear. They severely reduce the sensation for men and as such often make sex less pleasurable for women as well. If you had to put a condom on your tongue before eating, there would be no fat people in the world. You don’t starve, but you don’t TASTE!” In this day and age of AIDS and other debilitating STDs, you would have to be crazy not to wear one.
At least there are some fun choices for the selection of your little rubber buddies now. There are now more choices than just slippery or dry. There are some really kinky condoms out there for the adventurous – flavored, and colored, and studded, and ribbed. Make sure you read the packaging before you go too crazy with any of them though – some are novelty condoms, and do not portend to prevent STIs or pregnancy. These types of novelty condoms are just meant to have some fun with. For serious sex, stick to the boring drug store variety for the most part
Some of the kookier condoms that are on the rise are quite interesting. First off, there is the “Inspiral Condom”. It is a spiral ribbed condom that is really catching on quickly. U.S. Surgeon Dr. A. Reddy, known for creating the female condom, invented it. When in place on the penis, it looks like a big screw. There are rave reviews on the Internet for this product. Women love it because it is much more sensual for them and increases the intensity of their orgasm, while men like the fact that they feel the sensation much better than on a regular condom. And you’ll literally be getting “screwed” when you have sex with it. No longer a colloquialism!
And how about the "Viagra Condom"? It can improve the size and length of an erection. It is meant for people with partial erectile dysfunction, but can be useful for guys who have trouble keeping it up once the condom goes on. Even the best of us have occasional problems in this arena, so I am going to keep one of these babies in my pack-sack of sexual goodies.
On a side note, I have been watching a lot of “survival” television programs lately – the kind where someone is lost and needs to survive in the wild. Almost every emergency and/or survival kit out there these days has a few condoms in there. And for good reason! They can be used as a water-proof case for matches, electronics, or anything that will fit in there. Also, they can hold up to a GALLON of water for drinking and transportation. Pretty handy for something so compact! Add a few to your emergency kit for when the grid goes down.
Condoms are the epitome of over engineering. Most men only ejaculate 1.5 teaspoons, but the condom can hold a gallon without bursting. Even elephants only cum in quarts!
If this article has peaked your interest then you should visit the link below:
http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/top10datingpersonals.php
Along with the quest for the love of your life comes the side benefit of a lot of sex with new partners. There is nothing wrong with it – sex is an important component of any adult relationship. However, having all this sex with all these new partners, only a fool would proceed with out protection. And protection means condoms.
Condoms are not everybody's favorite thing to wear. They severely reduce the sensation for men and as such often make sex less pleasurable for women as well. If you had to put a condom on your tongue before eating, there would be no fat people in the world. You don’t starve, but you don’t TASTE!” In this day and age of AIDS and other debilitating STDs, you would have to be crazy not to wear one.
At least there are some fun choices for the selection of your little rubber buddies now. There are now more choices than just slippery or dry. There are some really kinky condoms out there for the adventurous – flavored, and colored, and studded, and ribbed. Make sure you read the packaging before you go too crazy with any of them though – some are novelty condoms, and do not portend to prevent STIs or pregnancy. These types of novelty condoms are just meant to have some fun with. For serious sex, stick to the boring drug store variety for the most part
Some of the kookier condoms that are on the rise are quite interesting. First off, there is the “Inspiral Condom”. It is a spiral ribbed condom that is really catching on quickly. U.S. Surgeon Dr. A. Reddy, known for creating the female condom, invented it. When in place on the penis, it looks like a big screw. There are rave reviews on the Internet for this product. Women love it because it is much more sensual for them and increases the intensity of their orgasm, while men like the fact that they feel the sensation much better than on a regular condom. And you’ll literally be getting “screwed” when you have sex with it. No longer a colloquialism!
And how about the "Viagra Condom"? It can improve the size and length of an erection. It is meant for people with partial erectile dysfunction, but can be useful for guys who have trouble keeping it up once the condom goes on. Even the best of us have occasional problems in this arena, so I am going to keep one of these babies in my pack-sack of sexual goodies.
On a side note, I have been watching a lot of “survival” television programs lately – the kind where someone is lost and needs to survive in the wild. Almost every emergency and/or survival kit out there these days has a few condoms in there. And for good reason! They can be used as a water-proof case for matches, electronics, or anything that will fit in there. Also, they can hold up to a GALLON of water for drinking and transportation. Pretty handy for something so compact! Add a few to your emergency kit for when the grid goes down.
Condoms are the epitome of over engineering. Most men only ejaculate 1.5 teaspoons, but the condom can hold a gallon without bursting. Even elephants only cum in quarts!
If this article has peaked your interest then you should visit the link below:
http://www.top100datingpersonals.com/top10datingpersonals.php
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