If you are looking for tips on dating women, then this information will give you a few insights. When you treat women correctly on the first date, they will will want to go out with you again, regardless of what you look like or your financial position. There is one key success factor, and that is charm, charm, charm. Although there is such a thing as too nice, girls will tend to forgive that. There is however, a few things you should not do such as:
1) Do not diminish yourself such as
a. Making her feel so important that you are less in her eyes. If you are praising her or giving her a complement, couch it as a double entendre. You will achieve the complement without appearing to be subservient.
b. Asking her to compare you other men she has known – on a first date you will look like less because of the lack of history Do not force this comparison early; it is too soon to get into this level of feedback.
c. Giving her too much control over what happens next on a date. Questions should not be open ended. If you are not sure of what she wants, then give her short list of things to do next. If she is not happy with any of the choices, then you have have not done sufficient research as to what her preferences are. You are a moron, you deserve to be dumped. (On subsequent dates, you can dig for suggestions, but on a first date you should appear to be on top, considerate, but flexible).
2) The next issue is trying to impress her too much. Do not boast and crow, and keep mum on your financial information. Just be a considerate partner, listen to her, and pay the tab. The first date is all about her, it is not about you. If she wants to know more about you, then give them a solid well thought out answer but no answer should take longer than one minute, or else you are in the danger zone of coming across in a negative light.
3) Do not put her on a pedestal. That advice is more important if the woman is beautiful. Beautiful women are used to being on a pedestal. Did you ever notice how often that really attractive women are dating bums? That is because hoods do not put them on a pedestal and they feel like they are being appreciated for who they are. In many cases the bums are abusive, but they like that because it is just different, and different is special to them. Nothing is more tiring to sexy women as unwanted attention – they have heard it all before. The better thing to do is to just ask them something about themselves, such as what they do, what interests them, etc.
4) Wanting to go steady too soon in a relationship. both of you should be initially playing the field. If you seem too willing to commit exclusively, you will seem desperate in their eyes. No woman wants to be dating a needy loser. You have to come across as successful in relationships, and therefore more interesting in her eyes.
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Everyone has their own ideas of what sexy means.
The umbrella of "sexy" covers many ideals.
Over the years, the boundaries have been pushed, tested, stretched and shattered where the concept of sexy is concerned.
Sex, for most of the twentieth century, was considered to be a non-conversational topic.
Once the big screen became a big part of everyone's life, the idea of being seen with a large woman on your arm was less and less likely to be entertained by many males. Movie-stars were usually much thinner than the average for their time. The reason was simple; cameras add pounds to anyone's form, so movie-stars tended to be thinner than average in real life to look normal in film. Slowly, the the sexy standard gradually started to shift from voluptuous to thin.
There is now a shift underway that is changing the sexy ideal to more normal BMI's.
With plastic surgery, larger breasts are more in vogue, even on skinny women.
Push up bras with even triple padding are all the rage among the slim set, but when their dates see them naked on, the jig (jug?) is up. Men are let down with falsie wearing women. Because of this, many men are starting to look at more naturally enhanced women, so curvy is back in vogue. And on that note, who is more curvy than a BBW?
When you look back through the larger part of history, voluptuous women were considered to be most desirable. Larger women were seen as mother figures, and children were a necessity in nomadic and rural based societies. Even in during the last ice age, small statues often idealized their goddesses as curvy women and in most cases these statuettes were more fat than voluptuous.
The lyrics in "Fiddler On The Roof" (If I Was a Rich Man) which talks about Russian peasant society at the turn of the twentieth century exemplifies a rich man's wife as having a proper double chin. In other words, for much of the past, being meatier was a status symbol, because it proved you had plenty to eat, and therefore must be wealthy.
In the last half of the twentieth century, there has been a new incoming citizens from many various societies into north America. With these cultures have also come the more traditional preference for larger families and women who will bear larger families. The well endowed woman is back in vogue.
Who knows, maybe in a few more years, the most desirable porn queens will be big beautiful women. Mae West was certainly not in any way skinny, but in the early twentieth century she was most men's epitome of sexy.
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I decided that I needed a woman in my life, and could not seem to meet any in the bars that I frequented. That was the main reason that I joined an online dating site. When I signed up, the first thing I had to complete was my personal profile so women would know all about me. I had a good job with a six figure income in an Internet start up, with stock options that ran to millions. Since I had always been single, I wanted to settle down with my life partner.
After a short period of communicating with a good number of women, I finally someone who I seemed to click with. Pro forma, we first emailed, then chatted a while, but it was several weeks before we decided to have a date. We met at a somewhat crowded family style restaurant. We had discussed a few more intimate places and she kept raising objections until I realized that she was just worried that they were a bit too secluded and private for her. With that realization in mind, I was able to suggest something she was okay with in a few minutes.
On the night of the date, I went to some trouble to be presentable. I got a haircut in the morning. I had even bought new slacks, a new shirt and a new blazer type jacket to wear. The restaurant was not formal enough for a tie, so I dispensed with that. I think that it is horrible the way some guys dress carelessly on a date. I abhor the entire look of not shaving and looking scruffy that many men sport today. I think it is insulting to women. Mainly because it looks like she is not important enough for you to put yourself out for. I like to dress up for a date because it communicates to the woman that I care about her. I think of it as a subtle compliment, sort of putting them up on a pedestal. In any event, the evening of my date found me showered, clean shaven, and well dressed.
I showed up at the restaurant a few minutes early to make sure that our table would not be given away, and waited for her. When she came in, I was taken aback. Although her pictures showed her to be attractive, they did not hold a candle to seeing her in person. But it was not her face that was so special. There is just something that some women have when they move that makes you want to praise God and sing halleluiah to his greatest accomplishment, the female body. This lady hat that and more. I have never been so mesmerized watching a female move in my life. She had a terrific body shape, but that was not what it was that was the attraction. It was just the amazing grace that she had when she entered the room. This air of confidence and control that was not to be denied. Every mans eyes in the place watched her as she moved across the room. Her figure was the epitome of the perfect female body. I was tongue tied.
I am not one who is attracted by huge headlights (breasts) on women. I am really much more attracted to a slim compact body. Needless to say, I am the same way about all parts of the body. Legs, waist, and butts should be more firm than saggy. When I see a woman with a firm body, I see someone who likely works out, and I find that sexy. They put physical effort into making themselves look good. There have been exceptions to this tendency of course.Delta Burke was a woman who had a presence that could make me look past my 'heavy' bias to see the incredible beauty of the woman underneath.
Normally though, I like slim, but I detest anemic. Normally though, it is the woman with a slender trim body who will attract my eyes over any woman with ponderous, gelatinous breasts. To my mind, Jello should jiggle, not bodies. My date was different from my natural preference. She was fairly well endowed, but in a tight, trim, athletic looking package. She had a figure that seemed to slide neatly between the full figured and the slender woman. She exhibited all the advantages and none of the disadvantages of both body types. Not an easy feat to accomplish. You had to admire the genetics that went into the package. My eyes kept drifting back to watching her body flow across the room. What an amazing thing to watch! She was shapely, but that shape was all attached to a slim, firm, long torso. Her breasts seemed to be trying to break out of her dress, and her caboose was doing a number that was entertaining to watch. Her rear was sort of like what a dancer would have. Muscular and tight. Truly a nice package to look at.
We ate dinner and really enjoyed each other's company. Since it was a first date, I had not planned a lot of extra anything beyond the meal. We just lingered over the remains of our dinner and chatted. After a couple of hours, and some dirty stares from the staff, I took her home and kissed her goodnight. As far as first dates go I would have scored it a nine out of ten. We agreed to see each other again the following weekend.
The ensuing weekend saw things go even better. On that Saturday we had brunch. Later we took in an afternoon cinema before going out for dinner. Later that night we went dancing. When we were dancing she felt a little different than most women I have danced with. I could not place it, and just put it down to the clothes she was wearing. The weekend after that, we had another date. This time I kept it more low keyed. A walk in the park, literally, followed by dinner and dancing. I was excited as to how well we were connecting!
As I kissed her goodnight, the kiss deepened, and before long she was opening the door of her apartment and dragging me in. As our clothes started to fall inside the doorway, I got a few surprises that I was not expecting. She was wearing a Victoria Secret triple push up bra with (I guess you would call it) mammary foam (rather than memory foam) that exaggerated her bra size significantly. But I was okay with that, because I am not a fan of large boobs anyway. As well as the padded bra, she was wearing this thing called a body shaper, sort of like a girdle in drag, and that was the only reason that she felt so firm and trim. When removed, she showed no sign of the muscle tone I had imagined. Instead, there was a bit of flab. The last straw for me was the false bum. She was actually wearing something that accentuated her ass! Holy cow! She was a total body phoney! She was a fake person! I was in shock!
Needless to say, that took all the ardor out of my night. I questioned her as to how she thought that lying to me would be a way to build a foundation for a permanent relationships. I said that if she had shown me what she was really like, we would have done all the same stuff anyway. She had crossed a line of trust with me. If she lied about this, then likely a lot of what we had discussed that attracted her to me in the first place was likely crap too! We parted ways that night, which is a shame really. She was so perfect for me otherwise.
I cannot begin to understand why some people feel they have to lie on dating sites or pretend that they are something that they are not. But maybe parting that way was a blessing. At least that avoided the embarrassment of me telling her that I was not really a successful millionaire.
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Life around a new woman in your life is just more costly. The fact is inevitable, even though it is seldom discussed in polite company. Guys all get the fact that you will be picking up the tab when you take her out to dinner or the movies, but as the relationship gets more serious and you spend more time together, other costs rear their ugly heads. Here are a few that you might not have considered:
1. More Bathroom Tissue
The old joke that says “Women be shoppin’” should be changed to “Women be wipin’.” As soon as you start having a woman over to your place regularly, expect at least a threefold two-ply increase in toilet paper. They use it for everything, and they don’t go easy on it either. Believe me.
2. Water Filters
Ladies Magazines and every diet book ever written says that drinking lots of water is the secret to losing weight and staying healthy, and women literally drink that up! That means you’re going to go through your water filters at a quicker pace than you can believe. And they’re not cheap!
3. Skin Cream
Get yourself a large bottle of skin moisturizer. If you really want to get in her good books, take stock of what she uses most often at her place and stock it in your bathroom. It benefits both of you, since we all like our ladies to have soft skin. Plus, you can use it for massages in a pinch.
4. Oreo Cookies
There is a strong chance that it is just the lady that I am with, but I have to purchase this particular delicacy weekly now!
5. Ice Wines
Most guys would just as soon drink beer as wine. When a woman comes into your life, suddenly wine also comes into your life, especially sweet desert wines. Unfortunately, a good ice wine will set you back somewhere between $50.00 and $100.00 a bottle. Ouch! But once you develop a pallet for these sweet wines, you will not mind the cost so much.
6. Maxi Pads
Accept the fact that you will be buying these things on a regular basis. Get used to the initial embarrassment. Pretty soon it will feel as natural as picking up underarm deodorant. Besides, she will appreciate the consideration.
7. Scented Candles
You will learn pretty quickly that a house full of burning scented candles means that she is in a romantic room. A bathroom full of scented candles and an invitation for a double bath means the same thing. However a woman bathing alone with scented candles is not a signal for anything. They just like to do it. In any event, women love these things, they are not expensive, and they are great little subtle tools for women to tell you that they are in the news.
8. Probiotics Yoghurt With Berries
Here is something that you will just have to become accustomed to when a women is around. It is called Probiotics Yoghurt. Probiotics is a friendly bacteria that is important to your overall health. Women eat it for other reasons. The main one is that hit helps tremendously if they are prone to yeast infections and/or bladder infections. Either way, most women eat it, and of course you will be expected to as well. So here is my secret on this little item. Find "Activia Probiotics 'Desert' Yoghurt" – it comes in several flavors. And do not mix it up with the regular "Activia Probiotics Yoghurt". That little item 'desert' in the label makes all the difference to me. The desert stuff does not in any way taste like yoghurt. In fact it almost tastes like pudding to me. In any event, buy this stuff. You will like it, and your girlfriend will reap the rewards as well. And if her female parts remain in good shape because of it, then you will get a lot warmer reaction to any advances that you make, and much more frequently.
9. Sex Toys
If the planets align for you and you are involved with a woman who is into sex toys, then make sure that your sex toy store visits are fruitful. Invest in only the best quality! These are super expensive, and they are not refundable, so make sure that they are what you want, and that they will last. Silicone is usually the best quality and the most realistic.
10. Extra Toothbrush and Slippers
If you get her a toothbrush for your place, you’ll get a big kiss. If you buy her slippers, she’ll melt. Slippers are great if you have a cold floor, plus they keep her cozy. And a cozy woman is an affectionate woman.
11. Internet Usage
Women spend time on the internet looking at a lot of stuff. Where men will be into porn movies and such, women are more likely to be looking at movie videos on youtube or spending time chatting on facebook. Games are also a favorite. That is all okay. She will be unlikely to blow the doors off of a standard high speed internet plan, but if you are on a cheap plan, be prepared to upgrade.
12. Plants, Candles, and Dust Collectors
It seems that God created women with a frilly thing and trinket obsession. They have to fill up any space that they occupy with frilly stuff on the walls, and dust collecting trinkets on every open bit of table-top. Women are God's gift to merchants, and they spend most of their time living up to that image.
13. Special Occasions
Log anytime that you had a date or did something special into your computer's calendar function and put in annual reminders. The first time that you met will need to have a monthly reminder for the first year. I also add notes as to what she was wearing, what you did together, and anything else that was special about the night. Put several warnings on each event to give yourself plenty of time to make reservations, order flowers, or buy something appropriate.
In summary, relationships with women is just like Halloween. Be prepared to Shell Out!!
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Lots of women secretly desire the ability to totally turn on their man so that he will never look at another woman. The issue is that most women are not raised in any way that would allow them to know or to learn what it takes to keep a man truly interested in them forever. What is it that a man is looking for that they find when they watch porn movies? The women are not overly attractive, the acting is horrible, there are no real story lines. So the attraction is certainly not intellectual. The attraction is purely physical, but there is more to it than just simple sex. If a man was just wanting an orgasm, he can do it to himself in minutes.
The attraction is the thought of having a woman willing to do anything that he wants to do sexually. And that pretty much means anything that he might ever want to do. A woman who asks what he wants and gives it to him, and tells him what she wants so he can reciprocate. Shy does not work here!! Men are such obvious creatures, and they do not do well with hints or shy smiles. When it comes to sex, they want a woman to tell them what they want, and they want someone who is totally into mutual pleasure.
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When you’re dating a woman, one of the toughest tests you’ll have to pass is the first time you make her dinner. It can be a wonderful intimate experience for both of you to kick back and truly relax. Unfortunately it can also lead to disaster very easily. Here are some simple things that I consider any time that I invite my special someone over, and they are especially important for the first time.
The easiest cop out is to just order in. Pay attention to what she orders on previous dates, and try to build around that when you order in. It has a couple of benefits in that you are not stressed about cooking, and if she does not particularly like it you can blame someone else. Just make sure that you do not promise her home cooked when you invite her. However, if you do feel like you’re a good cook, here are some dos and don’ts:
Menu Do's
Unless your date does not like wine, or does not drink at all, wine is a good choice. It shows sophistication, and at the same time shows her that you can do more than just guzzle beer. Pick something appropriate. A red like a merlot or cabernet sauvignon for red meats, or a white, like pinot grigio, chardonnay, or sauvignon blanc for chicken or fish. And do not cheap out or go too expensive. Something in the $12.00 to $20.00 a bottle range for a dinner date will likely prove sufficient, and will be acceptable even if she has a more educated pallet than you do.
Even if she is not into Japanese sushi or maki, then picking up some simple vegetarian California rolls ahead of time and keeping them in the fridge would be appropriate.
For a main course, serve a dish that you can keep warm in the oven just in case she’s late. If you make a quiche and she gets stuck in traffic, it’ll be ruined. But if it a nice roast or lasagna, you can keep it on low and serve it when she shows.
Ask about any allergies or diet issues she might have – otherwise your dessert might have to wait until you get back from the emergency room. Keep an over the counter anti-histamine around for emergencies. Benedryl is one of the better known. Ask your pharmacist for another appropriate alternative to have on hand as well if benedryl is a problem.
Speaking of, you should keep the meal light – that way if you do have dessert and then want some “adult times”, you won’t be too full of food to really “move it”.
Candles are great to scatter around your digs, as well as on the table for dinner. Nora Jones, or Diana Krall are both among my favorite choices for intimacy music. Better to have a cd of romantic themes available up your sleeve than to have the latest rap, hip-hop or techno music.
Things Not To Do
Stay away from anything that you have not cooked before at least twice successfully. Stay way from meals that are too fussy or require you to be stirring constantly for long periods of time. You are looking for something where either the stove does all the work by itself, or else something that might require fussing but only for a few minutes maximum.
Avoid anything involving garlic and onion unless you buy her an extra toothbrush in a sealed package. Explain that you didn’t buy it expecting her to use it in the morning, but because you might want to do some kissing. She’ll blush.
You do not have to impress her with fancy china, but on the other hand paper plates are a no-no. For a set of inexpensive matching dinnerware and silverware, Wal-Mart is your friend.
Don’t over-spice. It’ll lead to gas problems for both of you, and that’s not romantic.
Desert
Light deserts like sherbet, fruit cups or ice cream are in. Cheesecake and similar heavy deserts are out, even in small portions. You do not want anything that can make either of you feel bloated.
To top of your successful evening, keep several appropriate desert toppings in the fridge just in case. My standards are redi-whip, smuckers caramel syrup, smuckers strawberry syrup, and any good chocolate syrup I can find in the supermarket.
Good luck and bon appetite!
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Going on a movie for a first date is almost a no-brainer. It will not put you into any dreamy romantic category as the guy who gave me the coolest and most unique date ever, but on the other hand, it is sort of expected, and usually a pretty safe bet. Certainly it is less stressful to you than say – asking her to go sky diving, or zip lining, or some other off the wall thing.
Movies stifle conversation while they are playing, which can be a mixed blessing to both of you. The pressure to keep the conversation moving is reduced, so you can both relax a bit more and just get used to being near each other. When the movie is over, it now gives you a mutual topic of conversation, especially if the movie was mediocre or bad. Truly great movies are hard to have a stimulating conversation about until you have had a few hours to reflect on them. If you see a classic great movie together, however, it can be talked about because both of you have seen it before and have already reflected somewhat. Interestingly enough, the worse the movie is, the more it will stimulate conversation.
After selecting the movie to see, you will likely what some sort of snack and refreshment. Although it is hard to do, try to stay away from popcorn and soda pop. Most guys eat popcorn like pigs, and that will not leave a lasting good impression. Soda will make you belch, which is also not a something your date will brag about later. Better to go with a candied treat like M&M's or Smarties. For a drink, consider iced tea or fruit juice. If nothing else, these latter choices will show that you are not an inside the box thinker.
Good Movies
Some movies are great for a first date, while others are not so good. First off, ask her what she likes. If she has her heart set on a particular movie, then you pretty much have to go with that, especially if it is a chick flick. However, if she just has preferred genres of movies, you will have some ability to influence the outcome. Thrillers are okay, but you want a movie that is not just shoot-em-up. James Bond types of movies tend to be a better selection than Bruce Lee types.
Three examples of good first date movies would have been:
1. Comedy –Adam Sandler has an amazing ability to pull off comedy with romantic interest in most of his movies.
2. Drama – Some of the Victor Hugo classics like Les Miserables, The Hunchback of Notre Dame, or Tale of Two Cities. I do not know how he does it, but the movies always seem to have an optimistic and upbeat ending, even while the subject matter is based on tragedy and misery by and large.
3. Romance – Anything by author Nicholas Sparks is usually a safe bet.
That being said, here are some examples of first date movies that would classify as a bad idea:
Bad Movies
The wrong choice of movie will lead to nothing but blue balls and heartache. An hour and a half of unhappiness is not recommended. These would be examples of BAD choices:
1. Holocaust Movies – The Diary of Anne Frank would be horrible for a first date.
2. Sob Stories – Boys Don’t Cry – I made the mistake of taking a girl on a first date to this film. She just cried all the way home on the subway. Terrible. Great movie though!
3. Adventure Movies – Conan – Don’t go to any movie where the main actor is shirtless and muscular. Otherwise, you’re risking a comparison where you will not come out on top.
And for god’s sakes, don’t take her to a porn theatre! Sure, it gets your intentions across, but it’s a little strong for a first date. Watch Taxi Driver to see what happens when you try to pull that one on an unsuspecting young lady. Taxi Driver, by the way, would have been a bad choice for a first date movie.
Good luck! And god willing, she’ll act like Alanis Morrisette did in the theatre 
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