Friday, December 23, 2011

Dating A Granola Child



The modern day hippy is often referred to as either a neo-hippy (who are very much like the late 60's hippy in dress, views, and outlooks) or else they can be a granola-hippy (those who are not really into political activism, but are into green eco friendly vegetarian life styles). There are two other types of modern hippies, but they are not really hippies at all, just hippie wannabes. In my personal experience, one of the best kinds of women to date when you’re looking for a special someone is a modern neo-hippy or granola-hippy  chick. So these are not activists from the late sixties, although you shouldn’t discount anyone based on age. Just look at Cybill Shepherd, Sharon Stone, Madonna, Sigourney Weaver, Debra Winger, Ellen Barkin, Beverly D'Angelo, Kathleen Turner, and Margot Kidder for examples of 60's generation women who are still pretty darn hot! In any event, the modern day neo-hippy or granola-hippie will take a lot of their lifestyle cues from the 60's hippie movement.

What you will tend to notice is that women from both of these groups do exhibit some common tendencies. They like to have long hair and tend to wear it loose. They will wear jeans with loose fitting blouses, or they will wear flowing dresses or long billowing skirts. (They wear sandals and love to dance around campfires|They will wear flip-flops, or simple sandals, and go barefoot as often as practicable. They are uninhibited and thing nothing of dancing around a campfire on the beach, or just relaxing, looking at the stars, and contemplating the infinite|These ladies prefer being barefoot, and when footwear is necessary, flip-flops or simple sandals are preferred. Running shoes are for dress up occasions. They never obsess about putting on a couple of pounds (although that seldom happens because of the vegetarian eating practices that most of them follow), they are comfortable in their skin, and in general are just very liberal minded about sex and relationships in general. They usually have a job making jewelry, working at a health food shop, or practicing Reiki.  They smoke grass and drink organic beer. In short, they’re awesome!


Where to Meet

Of course to meet these tantalizing women, you need to go where they hang out.

Drum circles – Just show up, chances are they will let you watch, and if you bring something that makes a noise, like a gourd with pebbles in it, you can likely join in.

Yoga class – Simple exercises to tone their bodies are part of treating the body like a temple. Position your mat near the back of the room to enjoy the show.

Indie music festivals – Burning Man or Rainbow festivals are good. Check out any local free paper or telephone poles for free or inexpensive local festivals of this nature.

Organic markets/health food stores – Hippy chicks love a gluten-free, organic diet. If you’re at the same store buying similar foods, you could suggest trading recipes…

Lectures on environmental issues – these ladies are all about green living, low carbon impact lifestyles and organic foods. They seldom miss these kinds of lectures.


Pros to Dating Hippy Chicks

These wonderful people are not into materialistic gain at all. A walk in the park is just fine as a date. Hiking or camping are just as good. That means CHEAP DATES! It doesn’t cost anything to go for a bicycle ride, or go to the beach and watch the sunset. Your pocketbook will thank you. Plus, hippy chicks usually don’t care about your income, so if you’re not making the big money, you don’t have to hide that fact.

They don’t wear a lot of make-up or perfume, which lets you see her in her natural state. What you see is what you get. They will look pretty much the same in the morning, or after a shower. If you like what you see, you get to see exactly that all the time.  If these women are slower paced in some ways than a more traditional modern woman. Do not get me wrong as they are not lazy. In fact they are likely harder working as a group than many other modern women. But you will find that their biggest expectation of you is to be who you are, not what they want you to be. There is generally less pressure to change.

They will tend to freely walk around naked in the privacy of your home. They usually have slender bodies that are a pleasure to behold and be held, and even when dressed, they seldom need the confining form of a bra.


Cons to Dating Hippy Chicks

Not wearing a bra can be a drawback as well if she had more than her share of estrogen and thus is well endowed. Gravity is not a friend to large breasted women, but at least you can see what you are going to get up front ;-).

You will likely find that they do not shave as often, or as much of their bodies as most women that you are used to.  Most will at least shave their armpits, but they are less likely to shave other regions. Most, however, will trim their nether regions regularly because they do believe in good grooming. However, if she’s against deodorants and perfumes, you could be dealing with a B.O. problem. That’s usually a deal-breaker. No matter what she looks like, you have to be happy with the way you lady smells..

Of course, you may find that she will smoke all your grass, and is a lot handier than you are at a lot of things, and that can be disappointing and just down right demeaning.


So go get them and happy hunting!

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